Tuesday, March 29, 2011

Stop. Think about it.

Right about now we're gonna talk about those people that have soooo many haters. Everybody's out to get them. Listen up, people who think highly of themselves. Nobody cares about you. You might be a little interesting or a lot...depending on how you look at it but at the same time that's no excuse to act as if you're above people. I mean really, we all eat, shit and bleed, yeah? You're not that awesome. Regardless of the fact of how awesome you may think you are (ok I won't knock some people cuz they really are awesome. Shoutouts to y'all!) not everybody is in love with you. Shit, sometimes a nigga don't even wanna be your friend.

Daily I am approached by people and whether interesting or not I try not to be mean. When you really look at it, you never can tell who you'll have to call on for a favour one day. You never know who's gonna end up being your shoulder to cry on or even your damn boss. Everybody wants someone to do something for them so why treat people like shit?

Talking to a pretty good friend of mine today I realized that very odd situations can yield very beautiful friendships. I was never one to acknowledge her but as time went by I opened up and saw that she was a beautiful soul that was simply misunderstood. And now, NOW we're so close. I'm not saying to go out there and friend every stranger you see, but be courteous. Yo, even if you don't like them too much you can still acknowledge them. Now before you get your panties in a bunch, shut the fuck up and notice that I said "acknowledge" and not "be a hypocrite". Being a hypocrite and being civil are two completely different things.

I've long accepted the fact that not everybody will love me. Hell, lots of people won't even LIKE me but that's their issue. I had an epiphany recently....well maybe not epiphany, I was way too drunk to remember everything, really.

(NOTE: Alcohol is great. Drink, drink, hooray!)

Everybody in my life is there for a specific purpose and everything happens for a reason. Yes, EVERYTHING. Don't get mad at that statement cuz really, you stubbing your toe, almost falling and being helped by someone may do so much for you. That could be your soulmate! You telling someone "Good Morning" just might stop them from killing themselves.So hey, it's not always what someone can do for you, but it's what you can do for each other.

4 comments:

  1. i was thinking about this the other day .. u ever notice how EVERYBODY have "haters" but nobody admits to being a hater?

    everybody want dem friends to tell them the truth, but they tell NOBODY the truth .... u know what ... if mi continue it goin turn into blog post rather than a comment.

    nice post

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  2. thanks mum.
    Mek a blog post yes. Dem need fi stop di foolishness. There's people I'm not fond of but meh a nuh everybody yah go like. Just man up and say so

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  3. I just got introduced to this blog and I have to admit.....I like it. re the hating though, hating is a part of life, as u said its not like u goin to like everybody.

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  4. I'm quite aware of that so it doesn't bother me anymore if someone hates me or not. LOL

    thanks for reading though :-)

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