Everybody has feelings. Sometimes people care about your feelings, other times they don't. That's just the way of the world an people in general. You cannot force people to care so give that shit up.
When I was younger I was always awkward and people used to make fun of me. I cared so much and they always hurt my feelings, but I've grown out of that. Granted, I do give at least an ounce of fuck but I will not let the way people think of me ruin my life and stop me front doing what I want, when I want. Sometimes even the very people you thought would never hurt your feelings, end up doing so. Oftentimes not intentional, but done nonetheless.
Another thing everybody has is problems. I repeat EVERYBODY HAS PROBLEMS, not just your depressed ass, and everybody has different ways of dealing with their own problems. Let's take me for example, I have a lot of problems and if I was to sit here and list them all, we would never leave and there's other important shit that needs to get done. Like living and breathing. Also, consuming THE BEST FOOD, pastry and alcohol that we can find. Anyways, back to the problems. Just because someone doesn't want to sit and wallow in your problems with you, doesn't mean they don't care. They just don't want to sit and wallow in your problems with you...while they have their own to wallow in. All that wallowing takes time and energy which could be spent doing something else (like living and breathing). Never try to unload your truckload of problems on someone else, that will only push them away. Trust me, I know. I'm walking away from a couple people as we speak.
I mean, people will sit and listen but only for so long, and they don't like repeats. They might not say "Shut up, you're talking too much" but you can tell when they want you to be quiet. Take that hint. Why bring up the same problem over and over...and over again? Nobody wants to sit and be sad all the time. Emo people have tricked you all, cut the bullshit. I'm not saying you should keep it to yourself all the time but don't try to let people feel bad about not wanting to share in your spilled milk. Don't cuss people out and snap at people and BITCH AT EVERYONE else. Hint, that's still not going to make me want to listen. Be mature about things and try to deal with it a bit at a time. There are some things you can deal with internally and some things you wont be able to deal with at all, it's up to you to know the difference, not someone else.
